Richie’s Rants!

To the complainer who complain I didn’t blog, I blogged…

Anyway, an ex-gf of mine called and chatted for a bit. Realise that this seems to be a prevalent problem for a lot of my female friends in that a lot of guys out there are players. Unfortunately for them… I’ve always told them the same advice and that is to find someone whom she’s happy with, BUT don’t plunge so quickly into a relationship. Must always test the water and work it out from a friend’s perspective first before jumping into the water.

Current courtship methods normally bypass the friendship level. Is it due to Generation X methods? I’m not sure but I do believe that being friends, and understanding each other before moving on is really important.

In the end, she came to the conclusion as some of my other friends and that is to distrust love. Is simple love really so hard to find? Unfortunately, I guess it’s much harder for girls, especially as they get older. It’s a sad and practical fact of life that as the girl ages, it’s harder to get a good partner, so having high standards in finding a bf is also a must, I guess.

Advise to girls: Even though the guy seems perfect at first sight, spend some time to know him as a friend. Only as a friend, would you be able to see how he is like. He might be able to hide his feelings well but if you insult him or make fun of him… Test his response! If he really likes you, he would endure the insults because he’s willing to endure it because he really likes you. If he can’t take it… have second thoughts because he might not like you enough to be able to overcome his own ego. Normally at loggerheads, guys won’t give in because of their ego. They feel that they’re superior to the ladies and would you want a guy like that? Food for thought.

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